I am going to use this tread to complain about my love life so strap in, boys.
feel free to roast me, give me advice that i foolishly will not take, complain about your own love lives, or laugh at me.
Im really into a girl that I work with. Nothing wrong with that, right? Well, here is the problem - she has a kid, she is technically still married to her child's father, she is living with another guy.
This all started when she began flirting with me a lot at work. I ignored it at first but eventually was unable to stop myself from flirting back. I began thinking about her a lot. She is very pretty and our personalities seem to mesh well.
She texts me every once in a while with little things, flirting. I text back but eventually she ends up ghosting me for hours, often days at a time because she is living with another dude and I assume she doesn't want him to know.
We share the same gym and last week I saw her and talked to her a bit. I eventually convinced her to come hang out with me in my car and listen to music. Within 2 minutes of sitting in my car we're making out, she is all over me - its great. She tells me that she has "wanted to do that for so long". Confesses that she thinks about me a lot, looks forward to seeing me at work every day, etc.
I meet her the next day briefly, we make out in the car again. I ask her to leave her boyfriend, she says she will. I text her the next day and she says that she cant meet me but that she will see me again soon. Days go by, I text her again - no reply for two days. I tell her that I want to see her again even if its just for a short time. She says "you know I want to" - then no more replies.
How do I convince her to leave her boyfriend? She has made it very clear that she is very attracted to me, has said things like "if I weren't in the position I am in right now we would be together".
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